On a Wednesday morning
5 years from now I saw an ad on #Facebook about becoming a millionaire and
I said to myself I already am one!
Then I wondered what it was let me
check
The more I read about it the more
curious I got
Finally, I called my bestie and we
both decided to attend this preview it was called secret millionaire blueprint
It’s was a two-day event and I had
never attended a seminar , after I left college nor did any developmental
programs ever
So when I reached the venue and saw
a big crowd waiting I felt as if I was going to a witness a show or a concert
The first time I saw him he was
instructing his team and checking mike set ups etc.
We were waiting out when I saw
Hrithik Roshan’s Mother and she was too waiting outside for the event to begin
We were second in the row and it was
chilling cold inside fortunately we had formal jackets and I looked at the
stage with Blank expression. hoping it would be worth waking up early and
coming all the way
I was going through a phase where I
had time in hand to work and give my best yet my business was on saturation
mode or auto mode, and today was indeed a little different from my mundane
life.
Once every one rushed into the room
there was loud music and a highly energetic girl on stage spoke about and
introduced him
He came on stage and took me by
surprise with his energy and his understanding of human nature. I was
unaware of the fact that he was a celebrity coach and internationally well
known .
Minute by minute I got soaked into
his ideology or you can say his belief system.
I had never asked myself so many
questions about myself and he kept on sharing one golden key after another
that shifted something inside my head and I was completely in sync with what he
was sharing.
Time flew hours and hours passed and
I could not believe I sat there for hours listening learning absorbing almost
like a small kid watching a sci-fi movie
Being a fashion designer my creative
energy was ignited and my ideas were overflowing with bigger dreams and goals
and the possibilities of me becoming something more than who I was that too at
a point when life was saturated yet incomplete in many ways.
At the end of the day, I did my
first closed eye process and I could see my mother and things I feared that
would happen to her
Fear of losing her - a strong girl
who never showed emotions in public had tears rolling down her face and I
almost could feel the shift in my mindset
When I went home I was mentally so
much in sync with my dreams and so many emotions which I guess were dead
somewhere in day to day life
A new perception of what I already
took for granted or did not value.
A person who hates to get up early
was dressed and ready to leave for the second day leaving her children home
first time ever without feeling guilty and excited to explore day
two
The early morning being on the second
row In freezing cold room I was super excited to see the room jam packed and I
was seeing Hrithik Roshan’s Mother attend the day two also
When he spoke about the six tanks it
was like the fog cleared and I could understand what he was saying crystal clear
I was on the path of discovering my
journey and he made it, even more, easier to understand what was happening in
my life and how I was responsible for every bit of what I got and did not get
Some truths are bitter yet they are
great to cure misconceptions
And then came lunchtime while I
registered for all the programs available I was super excited for myself. I met
lawyer’s doctor’s artist agent’s businessmen and many other professionals - it
felt great to be among so many progressive people.
I had a dream to meet Hrithik Roshan
and little did I know it would materialize post lunch suddenly he walked in as
if it was his home
The crowd went crazy and I was just
a few meters away almost as if on autopilot mode I walked up to Hrithik
and shook hands and it made no sense how it happened and it just happened
I even had a difference of opinion
when he said women with short hair ...... to which I had many women speak up
along with me and looking back I smile at those memories as I have come a
long way from then to now, only to realize how I have transformed and he has
such a major role to play in my life, at that moment I did not know that I am
embarking on a journey of self-discovery and building a completely new life .
Life has never been so beautiful and
among my many storms of life his principle of taking responsibility for what
happens to you and having the courage to stand strong and have great values or
adding value to lives of others has been priceless.
Learning under such an amazing
mentor has transformed a strong headed Business lady into a lady that is still
strong headed with contribution added to almost every gesture
And becoming the change I wish to
see in this world
Taking charge, being bold enough to
write her story and being sensible enough to not blame anyone for the ups and
downs of life
Living life on my terms and fighting
for what I strongly believe in ,while I soar higher and higher my journey is
now close to 5 years with almost every strategy learnt and every program
attended, the learning is what has kept me going and his unspoken support and
straight approach to showing the light on a darkened road remains his
superpower and the guiding to star us, including my children ,
Mr Arfeen khan has been a great
source of reality check in my life and the person who inspired me to become the
best version of who I can be not by mere words ,yet with some powerful systems
that rewired my beliefs and habits, and today I am truly grateful for applying
them to my clients who are vice presidents of companies, business women,
mothers, home makers , and students. Whether
I coach a woman to take charge of her emotions or challenges , or help a business
professional overcome failure, or mentor a tenth grade student to perform at
his best. Your inner wiring needs to be mended and he has given me just the
perfect tools to do so.
On my path of empowering women and
children working towards my dreams and mission and vision, my journey continues
with each passing day I not only experience true satisfaction of being able to
maintain my lifestyle and being a single mother, there cannot be a more rewarding profession than coaching as my
children benefit from my transformation from an angry and stress out mom to a
more balanced and cool mom.
To impact the lives of hundreds of women and
reach out to thousands through my digital medium, every passing day brings in
more value to my life.
A hard core guju business lady who took a decision
5 years back to learn from one of world best coaches and follow in his footsteps
to build a fortune in terms of financial freedom which I am so passionate about
and leaving behind a legacy.
The joy
of being ……
An author
A youtber
A podcaster
A empowerment coach
A keynote speaker
An entrepreneur
And much more in past 5 years my life with Arfeen
has indeed been a turning point.
Above all the peaceful sleep and the support of
hundreds of amazing coaches and change makers ,the pride that I see in my mothers eyes and last
but not the least , the physical and emotional transformation that I have had
cannot be summed up into a price or an amount.
My journey continues…………………
With a vision to empower women and children with
an attitude of I can and help them 5x their growth with my program Take
Charge5x Formula
2019 started with a bang not because I was
lucky, Its been awesome as I step by step applied every system I learnt with my
mentor to transform my life as well the lives of my clients
so while I walk my talk I dream of a even bigger and brighter future .
Gemini Dhar
Take Charge Expert and Author
