Monday, 24 August 2020

Kindness is equal to PROFIT!!!

 


Kindness is equal to PROFIT
WHAT !!
Gemini - I DON'T AGREE WITH YOU ๐Ÿ˜„

When we talk about profits years of learning to count the difference between cost and max retail price is profit

Or the balance sheet that you have been reading for years comes to your mind .

When your company or you make profit you are growing
When you have ample orders and clients you are in profit .

Gemini as an entrepreneur I know that profits are numbers , profits are clients and profits is that difference between cost and mrp

Where does kindness fit in !!!

Wired for money
Wired for success
Wired to be a go getter
Wired to do more

For an entrepreneur above is natural traits of growth which I extensively work on when a part of it is missing

Yet many of them when introduced to kindness become more agitated and look at me in disbelief
As if I am giving silly advise

It’s believed that we all are kind
And I agree each human being is filled with kindness yet very few of us consciously apply it to day to life

When it comes to business it’s rarely applied as most of the times we have to take decision that fetch us more money or that reduces our loss - think in numbers is mandatory when you are a business owner .

Hire and fire are policies mostly all huge corporate organisations use .

In the world of professionalism this is apt and nothing wrong with being calculative.

On the contra my with my experience with my vendors and staff has been unique and I have developed one part of my business coaching towards kindness

You can be kind when you experience kindness and how when one act of kindness towards you
When working with vendors and employees compassion plays a huge huge role .
We are one big family is great it say and when actually practiced can be difficult as part of it is forgiving mistakes , helping the weak ones grow , allowing that extra allowance of leaves , standing by your people and much more .

After all it’s humans we deal with .

Every person a unique personality and having their own special contribution towards a task or a job being kind gives you that strong bond and trust with your employees which will make them standby you when the going gets tough

It’s your chance to be their super hero
Truly I have seen the rewards of this
With 3 decades of professional relationship
Those who stand by me even today are precious
In the world where companies are laying off employees
That extra touch of kindness is will go a long way in nurturing the best relationships for your business

That extra credit that you get for your purchases ,that extra good quality and better service that you earn

Just because you used kindness

Next time someone is mean to you show them what kindness can do
Understanding humans is magical

It works wonders in professional as well as personal life

I admire Ratan Tata for the man he is and kindness has been his visible trait

So who is your role model ??
Do you want to build the foundation of an empire that gives you name fame and recognition that lasts many lifetimes

Than practice humane qualities , be ready to let go of few ounces of your profit towards kindness

Coaching has given all of my clients leverage it their growth

It’s not what you know that matters it’s how you apply what you know for a bigger and better outcome

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What kind of entrepreneur are you ?

 


What kind of entrepreneur are you ?
Do you love fast growth and quick results ! Who does not ๐Ÿ˜€

Or are you chilled out and cool about putting in hours of work so that you reap bigger profits and sustain for a longer time - some of us have the patience ๐Ÿ˜€

Farmer or hunter !!!

Well I work with many women entrepreneurs and they all want to be like -rabbits fast and rewarded asap .

Ready to run the race at the shoot of a bullet almost as if they have been chained for long and now are free to run towards their dreams . Excited , eager, restless and at times reckless and easy prey to fast track results .

So every result is needed quicker they at times are so desperate to make profits that they overlook the foundation of their business .

You got me right the vision is big the mission is strong however the person ego is going to execute the entire plan is they themselves !! Fall short in know how and bigger picture

While they look forward to conquering the world
80 percent of them have not conquered their inner demons . The inner work is almost always ignored
And they lack TAKING CHARGE

They have seen a quick taste of success and good profits and when it’s few months or weeks or at times few years LATER

They start pulling out their own hair out of frustration , lack of energy and of course stuck in the rut
Feeling
Burnt out is the fad word
No matter how smart you are and how great your product is !!!
When you stop loving your work and stop growing
The red zone - danger zone lights up and you are in hot waters
Either you move up or you get burnt down

Why does it have to be so extreme ??

On the contra I see well to do women entrepreneurs who are in no hurry to make that extra profit

They want to soak into detail , build a strong brand and invest deeply into creating a long lasting business which will go on or most cases need to be carried on as a second generation entrepreneur who takes over a legacy .

Either way they resemble the tortoise who take his own time to cross the victory line
Slow and steady
Nothing wrong in being a particular type

However time is money and nothing can buy you time except the art of leveraging what you know or have .

Meeta wanted quick results
She calls me and says
Mam. I want a coach who will give me results quick and fast
I have tried too hard and done good for myself
Now I want to go to the next level
Crack more deals and have a bigger reach ., build name and fame

That’s it
I don’t understand things like self help or working on self

I cannot pay money for all this

I can pay money to get more profits
Can you assure me that you will be my business coach and help me do so

This always bring a huge smile to my face even if the person cannot see me

It’s like someone wanting to have ready made muscle without working out
Or maybe I can explain it better

You want to score 90 marks without studying a subject

Well I can help you score more with less efforts but how can you expect to score anything in that case that you don’t want to learn

So the session starts with some fun questions and some eye openers

When they solve their business wheel and see where they stand
A lot of them have a humbling experience

To boast about your success and to honesty evaluate every part of you work is another

Realization is crucial
Acceptance even more crucial
And looking at things the way they are /not more grim or not more brighter

This it self gives many women entrepreneurs a reality check

Making profit does not guarantee cash flow
Having the first 50 k or 5 Cr as profit does not give you allowance to book your next upgraded car
You got to earn it right or your balance sheet will trick you into debt , loans and many sleepless nights

Ask me I have been there and would not want any of my clients to go through that

It can be a tricky journey if you venture out with only one dominant trait

A combination and a tested formula of a go getter entrepreneur will help you be IN CHARGE

Take Charge 5x Formulas
Are backed by my 30 years of global entrepreneurship and 7 years of working towards helping
Women entrepreneurs become financially strong

Know your traits and master them

Growth guaranteed
Ans happiness in building a strong future is your bonus

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ENTHUSIASM - Do you have this fuel in you?

 


What’s are your chances of closing a deal ?
What is that extra punch you can add to your personality that can help you do more ?

Enthusiasm is most taken for granted tool to success

Or at times enthusiastic people are looked upon as Kiddish

Well can you imagine when a kids needs something how effortlessly they can awww the parent or how easily we give into their innocence ๐Ÿ˜„
I know the twinkle in the eye , the smile on their faces and the not to miss excitement in their voice .

Everything has intensity a feeling of wonder and the energy is almost contagious

Therefore people who work with young kids are chirpy happy and full of life they also find wonder into small things .
While those who lack enthusiasm and energy get fed up , frustrated and emotionally drained when they are among children

It surprises me as to how one does not realize the power of
ENTHUSIASM

Loving what you do , and doing what you love !!

How do you show the world you love your job, you love your work , you love your craft or whatever you do !!!

Your energy , the joy you express, the way you jump out of bed everyday to get your most favorite task done

And the exact opposite of this happens when you dislike a particular task

For me I am super excited when I deliver keynotes no matter how many people in front of me .every cell in my body comes alive .

And when I am asked to sit quiet and observe passively some tasks that I dislike my eyes start to water , my body feels heavy and I am almost asleep at times

That could be embarrassing as well as deter mental if I were to work for someone

Dipti is a gymnast
She has 1000 volts of energy in her body when she is on field performing or training , however when it came to doing household chores her energy meter dropped to almost zero

Causing her to have massive arguments with her mum , I am sure many of you relate to this .

Nothing she did made her mum happy . Half hearted efforts don’t give you results . They can only give you regrets

So Dipti’s mum approaches me and said Gem do something what the hell is wrong with her
Why is she like this !!
Speaking to Dipti I noticed about her double standard behavior and how it didn’t matter to her whether her mum went mental yelling at her she would just switch off the outer noise and go into her room and lock herself

The first session she agreed to do with me out of love for her mum she finally decide to call it peace at home .

So when we started she shared how life was frustrating and currently her anger levels had gone beyond her control and she even had a painful breakup due to the stress and boredom

This kind of energetic people need to be kept busy , they got be be super active and doing constructive projects
A desk job would kill their enthusiasm

Some awareness and a lot of discovering more about how she could create a effortless win win with her family gave her lot of relief

A bright girl that she was she agreed to break her damaging patterns and build new healthy ones

The work began and concrete steps give good results with some hand holding and more inspirational vision worked best with her rather than things to do
It worked beautifully with her .

This is just a small example
Your state or your energy levels are first created in your mind

As a fed up mom s enthusiasm would be so high - when she would want to go out for a Starbucks coffee while a family member would help baby sit her toddler.

Ask a fed up employee if he would want to take two days three nights vacation and see his eyes light up
Who doesn’t want a treat - we all do

However in real life when you work on your state , enhance your energy levels and CREATE

Yes Crest an environment that you are in charge of , where you bring up the apt emotion and use it toward introducing yourself to the world

This sounds super complicated and it is when you have old patterns to stop you from changing

However with proper guidance and practice you can develop the LONG LASTING go-getter attitude

Enthusiasm is a fuel

Leverage your success with enthusiasm
It can be learnt and for those who have it , it can be structured for results

Next time you walk into a meeting use enthusiasm and be surprised with your results
Energy is contagious- make the best of it

Take charge 5x formulas is not rocket science it’s day to day strategies that will unmask your potential
Women entrepreneurs let’s take your enthusiasm to the next level ❤️
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Saturday, 15 August 2020

MERA INDIA

 

Independence is in true sense is love for your freedom 

Freedom can be in many forms 

Emotional 

Physical 

Financial 

Behavioural 

Expression 

And much more 


Independence also represents strength 


Wishing mera india and the people of this beautiful country 


Happy Independence Day 

May we love nurture and care for each other and build a healthier and stronger nation

Take charge is all about taking responsibilities 

 India ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ  

Our nation our pride ❤️


Monday, 10 August 2020

Do you live inside your head!!!

 


Do you live inside your head ?

Are you a person who takes ages to analyse and make descion and at times push behind descion that are connected to money or expenditure. !

Are you someone when asked to spend would say wait let me think ? Or let’s see not now . ‘

I know of elders who are adored by their children or grandchildren who run upto them for treats, goodies and gifts 

My nani has nearly two dozen grandchildren 
She had seven daughters and each one had their children go to stay with her in summer vacation 

We had gunny bags of mangoes delivered and we as cousins or nieces would become a big gang sit on the veranda in our petticoats / slips and chew on mangoes together. 

Those were the best memories of nani / grandmother . I remeber her for her big heart and everybready to share something to each one . Looking back I understand how she managed the two dozen of us ๐Ÿ˜„

We used to lineup in a que and she would open her potli/ cloth coin bag and give us pennies to buy ice lolly/ golas in summer 

I would have got very expensive gifts all my life yet those moments of receiving with love are etched into my value building .and we could always count on her 
Never did she hesitate in giving 
And in contra I have seen people be so very tight with their pennies 

They will think , plan check and maybe still take more time of think before they even put their hands in their pockets or pull out their cards 

I respect that it’s good to be sensitive to your situation and spend 

Yet the attitude matters 
Some crib with every penny spent and some do it with a huge smile and warmth in thier hearts 

Noticing habits and patterns in ourselves can help us discover better and more effective ways to deal with our choices and how we can enjoy the process rather than feel overwhelmed and dragged into making it happen 

So how much should you think before you opt for something or do something ?

Descions are made in the head - HEAD !!!

How many of you agree to this , yet research shows and proves that the descions maybe taken from the head - the major factor that makes one decode is the emotion that your heart adds to the descion 

Emotional people take faster descions and mostly are the ones who see mega growth and success and those who take ages to decide do lot of analysis paralysis 

It’s crucial to do analysis, 
Yet that’s is a limit of how much time one  you should  take 
Imagine a surgeon cutting open a heart and than getting into delayed descion making 
How would it impact his patients!!
It’s matter of seconds at that moment 
And at same time this same surgeion would take weeks to decide which car he would pay for 

Descion making tools are ideal  too help you out of the tricky yes or no 
Should I or should I not 
Type of situations 

This are not commonly use , yet those who know how to use them become so stress free 

You could have a well planned well structured business plan that goes kaput/ fails miserably 

Or it could be a foolish investment that fetched you crazy returns 

The more smart we think we are !! The better chances of falling flat on our face 

I have experienced this and so have many women entrepreneurs shared with me 
How after years of wanting to do something they found the courage to do it right alway!!

A venture which looked perfect and was planned with precision did not work out .

And just a gut feeling of something drove them towards mega success 

There is no gurantee to success and same way there is no gurantee to failure 

Therefore from my 3 decades of global entrepreneurship I can strongly say that 
Those heart based head verified descion made more profits than the planned head centred attempts (every experiences are unique ) this observation is based on mine as well as many inspirational stories seen and heard 

An emotion creates a state and that state creates an awareness which will lead you to make the best choice 

Take charge 5x formulas are designed and empowered with tool that you may have known 
Yet you would have not applied them with a new perception 

When you love the Individual in the mirror every morning , your confidence meter rises and that starts a chain of thoughts and emotions that will be your fuel to taking action 

Action +right emotion +belief = outstanding outcomes 

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