Do you live inside your head ?
Are you a person who takes ages to analyse and make descion and at times push behind descion that are connected to money or expenditure. !
Are you someone when asked to spend would say wait let me think ? Or let’s see not now . ‘
I know of elders who are adored by their children or grandchildren who run upto them for treats, goodies and gifts
My nani has nearly two dozen grandchildren
She had seven daughters and each one had their children go to stay with her in summer vacation
We had gunny bags of mangoes delivered and we as cousins or nieces would become a big gang sit on the veranda in our petticoats / slips and chew on mangoes together.
Those were the best memories of nani / grandmother . I remeber her for her big heart and everybready to share something to each one . Looking back I understand how she managed the two dozen of us 😄
We used to lineup in a que and she would open her potli/ cloth coin bag and give us pennies to buy ice lolly/ golas in summer
I would have got very expensive gifts all my life yet those moments of receiving with love are etched into my value building .and we could always count on her
Never did she hesitate in giving
And in contra I have seen people be so very tight with their pennies
They will think , plan check and maybe still take more time of think before they even put their hands in their pockets or pull out their cards
I respect that it’s good to be sensitive to your situation and spend
Yet the attitude matters
Some crib with every penny spent and some do it with a huge smile and warmth in thier hearts
Noticing habits and patterns in ourselves can help us discover better and more effective ways to deal with our choices and how we can enjoy the process rather than feel overwhelmed and dragged into making it happen
So how much should you think before you opt for something or do something ?
Descions are made in the head - HEAD !!!
How many of you agree to this , yet research shows and proves that the descions maybe taken from the head - the major factor that makes one decode is the emotion that your heart adds to the descion
Emotional people take faster descions and mostly are the ones who see mega growth and success and those who take ages to decide do lot of analysis paralysis
It’s crucial to do analysis,
Yet that’s is a limit of how much time one you should take
Imagine a surgeon cutting open a heart and than getting into delayed descion making
How would it impact his patients!!
It’s matter of seconds at that moment
And at same time this same surgeion would take weeks to decide which car he would pay for
Descion making tools are ideal too help you out of the tricky yes or no
Should I or should I not
Type of situations
This are not commonly use , yet those who know how to use them become so stress free
You could have a well planned well structured business plan that goes kaput/ fails miserably
Or it could be a foolish investment that fetched you crazy returns
The more smart we think we are !! The better chances of falling flat on our face
I have experienced this and so have many women entrepreneurs shared with me
How after years of wanting to do something they found the courage to do it right alway!!
A venture which looked perfect and was planned with precision did not work out .
And just a gut feeling of something drove them towards mega success
There is no gurantee to success and same way there is no gurantee to failure
Therefore from my 3 decades of global entrepreneurship I can strongly say that
Those heart based head verified descion made more profits than the planned head centred attempts (every experiences are unique ) this observation is based on mine as well as many inspirational stories seen and heard
An emotion creates a state and that state creates an awareness which will lead you to make the best choice
Take charge 5x formulas are designed and empowered with tool that you may have known
Yet you would have not applied them with a new perception
When you love the Individual in the mirror every morning , your confidence meter rises and that starts a chain of thoughts and emotions that will be your fuel to taking action
Action +right emotion +belief = outstanding outcomes
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